The Power of Kind Words: How a Simple Compliment Changed My Life
- steve richardson
- Nov 13, 2024
- 2 min read
Do you remember the first time someone’s kind words boosted your self-esteem?
I do.
I was eight years old on a hot summer’s day at school, out on the field playing cricket with my classmates. Our much-loved Headmaster, Mr. Law, was the bowler. He was a gentle giant, bald-headed, with a booming belly laugh and a sensitive soul that often brought tears to his eyes.
As I was fielding, Mr. Law bowled, and the batsman hit the ball with a loud “THWACK.” It soared toward me. I sprinted, dived, and caught it with both hands.
“Well done, Ricardo! What a catch!” Mr. Law cheered. He jogged over with a radiant smile, ruffled my hair, and said, “Well done, son, very well done!”
In that moment, I felt lifted, important, and seen.
Today, as an adult, I cherish that memory and realise how powerful a few kind words can be. They can heal, inspire, comfort, and even help shape our decisions.
Inspired by that moment, I’d like to share three ways to uplift others through words and actions.
1. Choose Words That Calm and Reconcile
In emotionally charged situations, be the one to soften the conversation. Use words that encourage understanding, reconciliation, and compromise. This doesn’t only help resolve conflict—it builds trust and respect, leaving a lasting impact on everyone involved.
2. Empower Through Positive Reinforcement
If you’re a parent, teacher, manager, or coach, remember the immense influence you have. Your words can either build or break someone’s confidence. Acknowledge and encourage efforts, celebrate achievements, and show appreciation. Small compliments can have lifelong effects on self-esteem and motivation.
3. Show Gratitude to Friends and Family
With those closest to you—friends, partners, family—take a moment to express gratitude for the positive things they bring into your life. A simple “thank you” or compliment can deepen connections and strengthen bonds. Try it, and you might be surprised by their response.
The Last Word on Words: Wisdom from Benjamin Franklin
“Speak ill of no man but speak all the good you know of everybody,” said Benjamin Franklin. His timeless advice reminds us of the potential within each interaction to make others feel valued.
In a world that often forgets the importance of kindness, may we remember to lift each other up, just as Mr. Law did for me all those years ago.
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